Friday, December 23, 2011

Christmas dinner * Dan & two Zachs * Events calendar * Bill's Coffeeshop Newsletter * Vol. 12 * Dec. 23, 2011


JOIN US FOR DINNER
ON CHRISTMAS DAY
Uptown Bill's hosts a Christmas Dinner on Sunday, Dec. 25. Noon to 2 pm. Love to see you. You're welcome to bring something to share, but it's not required. After dinner, we'll show "A Friend Indeed," the documentary film about Bill Sackter and the coffee houses. Hours on Christmas: 10 am to 4 pm.

THREE WISE MEN:  DAN & TWO ZACHS
(A holiday story from the coffeeshop)

"HEY mister, are you from Iowa?" I looked around and saw a young man crossing
the street towards me. I didn't get a chance to answer.

"I used to have a friend in Iowa, in Iowa City. Do you know that place?

"I lost touch with him, though. I lost a lot of other things, too. All I've got
now is my skateboard and this." He held up a battered and bulging backpack.

It was a cold December day, right before Christmas. There wasn't any snow yet,
but the wind made it clear this was certainly a winter day.

"I'm Tom," I said, holding out my hand. I'm from right here -- Minneapolis. The
car's borrowed. Mine's getting fixed."

"I'm Dan, sorry about the car. That sucks.

"I used to live near here in a great old house. Me and two friends found it. It
was empty, so we moved in.

"It was great for the summer -- and until the police came. They made us leave.
Actually, we snuck out the back just as they were coming in the front."

"Where are you staying now?" I asked.

"Wherever I can," Dan answered. "You might say that I'm couch surfing. I stay
with friends for a week or two. But then I leave.

"I just left the last place I was staying because I overheard the two people
living there arguing about how long I could stay. I just picked up my stuff and
left. Didn't even say goodbye.

"I called my mom and she said I was welcome to come back home. But Minneapolis
is my home now. I don't want to go back."

"Where'd you grow up?" I asked.

"Small town in Wisconsin. Nothing to do there, nobody left but old people."

A gust of cold wind chilled us both. "Say, I'm headed into that coffeeshop," I
said. "Come on, I'll buy you a cup of coffee."

He responded with a worried, almost frightened look. "It's okay," I said. "You
can check me out with the people inside. I've been coming to this place for years."

We went inside, got our coffee and sat down under a sign which read: "A 4-H
member lives here." I looked up -- and sure enough -- the Minnesota State Fair
4-H fan was still there was there, too; I'd put it there five years ago.

SO WHAT'D you do for Christmas?" I asked.

"I spent the day with a friend's family. It was great. They had a stocking for
me and everything."

"Why didn't you stay there for a few days?" I asked

"I didn't want to be a bother, you know, in the way and stuff."

There was a silence between us for a few moments. I didn't know what to say; I
guessed Dan didn't either. Around us, I could hear people talking. I heard music
playing, too, but I couldn't quite make out the words to the song.

"WHAT are you going to do now?" I asked.

"I wanna to go to San Francisco," Dan said. "I have a friend there who says
that jobs are easy to get. And they don't have winters like this."

"Have you ever been to San Francisco?" I asked.

I didn't answer his question right away. I started thinking - thinking about how
many times over the past 30 years I'd heard other young people say the same
thing right here in this same spot. Including me. Since the 1967 Summer of Love,
the draw of San Francisco has been a continuing siren song, calling Midwest
youth.

I was also thinking about the young people I've met in San Francisco who were
just as lost as this young man. They had gone to California with such
great hopes, hopes for a new life and hopes for a fresh start. There was so much
they wanted to leave behind. But too many ended up lost again, and this time so
far from home.

JOE'S voice brought me back to the present. "Hey, Tom, are you okay? I asked if
you'd ever been to San Francisco. You didn't answer me."

"Sorry," I said. It's just that, well...Yes, I've been there," I said. "And,
yes, San Francisco is all the things you say and more. But it's not easy to make
that move. I don't want to discourage you, but..."

Just then two other young men came up to us. "Hey," Dan interrupted, "it's the
Zacks."

"Tom, I'd like you to meet Zack and Zack," he said.

"We've been looking for you, Dan," said one Zack.

"We're here to take you out to dinner," said the other.

"We found this church which has a free dinner tonight," said the first Zack.

"Guess I gotta go," Dan said to me. "Nice talking to you."

"Nice talking to you, too," I said. "Take care." Just then I remembered that I
had a telephone calling card in my pocket, a gift for buying some Christmas
gift. I took it out and handed it to Dan. "Call your mother," I said. "Let her
know how you're doing."

"Thanks," Dan said.

Then he and the two Zacks were off to the church dinner. As I watched the three
of them cross the street I realized the song we had been listening to in that
coffeeshop was "American Noel" by Dave Carter and Tracy Grammer. It could have
been an anthem for Dan and the Zachs:

Three wise men
Riding through the cold
Lost on some jolly street
With no warm place to go
They are looking for a manger
Or a sign in the lights
But they're a long way
from Bethlehem tonight

COMING UP IN THE
COFFEE HOUSE

Sunday, Dec. 25
Noon. Christmas Dinner. All are welcome.
2 pm: Showing of "A Friend Indeed: The Bill Sackter Story."


Tuesday, Dec. 27
6 pm. Live webcast of Tom's Guitar Show.
7 pm Book signing by Ray Davis.
8 pm: Music with singer/songwriters Geoff Turner and Ben Sturdevant.


Wednesday, Dec. 28,
6 pm. Readers & Writers Group. 7 pm: Spoken Word


Thursday, Dec. 29,
6 pm Artvaark (Art Night). 7 pm. Open Mic.


Sunday. Jan. 1

Noon. New Year's Dinner.
2 pm. Showing of original 'Bill' movie (1981).

Wednesday, Jan. 4,
6 pm. Readers & Writers Group. 7 pm Spoken Word


Thursday, Jan. 5,
6 pm Artvaark (Art Night). 7 pm. Open Mic


Friday, Jan. 6
4 pm. Chess Club
5 pm. Friday Night Jazz.(tentative)


Saturday, Jan. 7.
4:30 pm. Irish Sessions.
7 pm. Saturday Night Music with Mutiny in the Parlor.

IA TWELVE DAYS
OF CHRISTMAS


How about an Iowa version of Twelve Days of Christmas? It might go like this:

A cold Herky in a bare tree
Two cars crashing
Three moonlit nights

Four feet of snow
Five prairie gold Molines
Six neighbors caroling

Ten runners running
Eleven deer a leaping
Twelve boxcars banging

Have a few ideas of your own for an Iowa version of this song? Send them along
and I'll offer them to other readers in a future column. Or add yours at the Bill's Bookmart page on Facebook.
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Bill's Coffeeshop Newsletter is a virtual extension of Wild Bill's Coffeeshop and Uptown Bill's Coffee House. Published since 2000, the Newsletter is written by Tom Gilsenan, a former manager of Wild Bill's and now director of Uptown Bill's. You can write to him at tomgilsenan@gmail.com

Wild Bill's Coffeeshop is a project of the School of Social Work at the University of Iowa. It has been a part of campus life in Iowa City for more than 35 years. Located in North Hall, the coffeeshop is open weekdays from 8 am. For more information, check the Friends of Bill's Coffeeshop page on Facebook. You can call the coffeeshop at (319) 335-1281. Donations to support the work of the coffeeshop may be sent to: Bill's Coffeeshop Fund, University of Iowa Foundation, P.O. Box 4550, Iowa City, IA 52244. Contributions are tax deductible.

Uptown Bill's is the crosstown cousin of Wild Bill's. Now in its 11th year, it includes a bookstore, performance venue and other businesses in addition to a coffeeshop. Located at 730 S. Dubuque, Uptown Bill's is open Monday through Saturday from 10 am. For more information, check the Uptown Bill's website or Facebook page. You can call Uptown Bill's at (319) 339-0804. Donations to support the work of Uptown Bill's may be sent to: Extend the Dream Foundation, Uptown Bill's, 730 S. Dubuque St., Iowa City, IA 52240. Contributions are tax deductible.



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In the spirit of Bill Sackter, Uptown Bill's strives to nurture and encourage a gathering place where people of all abilities are welcome. Find us on Facebook. Follow us on Twitter. Watch us on You Tube: www.youtube.com/playlist?p=PLEE41220297F8D82C
Visit our web page: www.uptownbills.org

Monday, December 19, 2011

DIFFERENT THIS YEAR * OPEN MIC & MORE * CHRISTMAS DINNER * Bill's Coffeeshop Newsletter * Vol. 12 * December 19, 2011

THIS YEAR WILL
BE DIFFERENT                                                                                                   (A holiday story from the coffeeshop)
"This year will be different," she told me. "I'm going home for Christmas dinner and this year we'll get along - my mom and me."

It was Christmas morning and I was sitting in a coffeeshop listening to Hope talk about her plans for the day. She recalled that last year had been a disaster. She and her mom had fought about everything -- from her boyfriend to her belly button piercing, from her mom's male friend to her working in a bar.

I remembered last year vividly. Hope had left her house in tears -- and
ended up right here at this same table in this same coffeeshop.

"But this year," she said again, "this year will be different."

"Good luck," I said.

"Don't you believe me -- it will," Hope said.

"Actually I wasn't doubting you," I said. "I am a Tom, though, and those doubts do come naturally, you know as in Doubting Thomas."

She laughed. I waited a minute and then said I'd just been thinking.

"What I was thinking was how remarkable you are. Despite what happened last year, you are going to try again. You have such, well, hope."

We both laughed.

"I've met a lot of other young people right here who have that same
optimism," I said. "It's awesome. I wasn't doubting you. I was just thinking about some of them.

" I was thinking about Martin, for example. One year, I gave him a book called Christmas Magic. He is a young man who has almost nothing which he can call his own. At home, he does not have anyplace -- not even a corner -- which is his own. Even his few clothes are borrowed by other family members without asking and without return. Yet when Martin got the book, the first thing he told me was that he was going to take it home and show it to his family. Then he went from room to room in school showing off the book. He was 16 then, but he sounded like he was five (a good five!). He kept saying over and over: This is my book.

"I was thinking about Mae. You remember her. She lived across the street and she used to come to this coffeeshop several times a week. Then one day in early December she disappeared. A few weeks later she showed up onstage in a production of "Scrooge" at a theater near here. After the show I ran up and asked where she'd been. Her story made me want to cry. She told me that she was living in a downtown shelter. She and her mom had to move from their old place, but lacked enough "up front" money to move someplace else. It was then I noticed that she was carrying a plastic grocery bag -- inside were her few possessions. She had no home, yet she was continuing to inspire us with her acting.

"I was thinking about Angel's sister, who returned to school after an absence of nearly a year. She told me she'd been living on the street a lot. But she wanted to come back and finish school and get a job so she and Angel would be able to care care of their younger sister. I told her how impressed I was that she came back. I gave her a book and promised her that if she read it I would bring the author to class. She told me she hadn't read a book since third grade. But the promise of the author was enough to start her reading again. She read it -- and I got the author to come to class. She managed to finish school, too, and graduated this past summer.

"What's so remarkable about each of these young people is their faith in the future, their hope that there can be a better tomorrow. You have that, too. you know.

"Say, speaking of high school, have you done anything about going back and finishing?" I asked.

Hope laughed. "Oh Tom, you haven't changed, have you. You're still harassing me about school."

"Yep," I said, "and after that I intend to harass you about college. I want you to go into social work. Then a few Christmases from now, you can be the one sitting here in this coffeeshop listening to young people."

Hope laughed again, then pushed back her chair. "Hey, I gotta go now. Will you be here later -- say 10 pm or so."

"Sure," I said.

"Good, I'll be back to tell you what kind of day it was with my mom. And, I just might listen to your pitch about school." She got up and walked out into a bright Christmas day.
JOIN US FOR DINNER
ON CHRISTMAS DAY

You're invited to join us on Sunday, Dec. 25 for a Christmas Day Dinner. It's at noon. You're welcome to bring a dish to share, but that's not required. After dinner, we'll show the film "A Friend Indeed," the story of Bill Sackter and the coffeeshops. Our hours on Christmas Day: 10 am to 4 pm

OPEN MIC & MORE
COMING THIS WEEK

Wednesday, Dec. 21
7 pm Spoken Word Open Mic. (Readers & Writers Group meets at 6 pm.)

Thursday, Dec. 22
6 pm Art Night. 7 pm. Open Mic

Sunday, Dec. 25
Noon. Christmas Dinner. All are welcome.
2 pm: Showing of "A Friend Indeed: The Bill Sackter Story."

Tuesday, Dec. 27
6 pm. Live webcast of Tom's Guitar Show.
7 pm Book signing by Ray Davis.
8 pm: Music with singer/songwriters Geoff Turner and Ben Sturdevant.

Wednesday, Dec. 28
6 pm. Readers & Writers Group. 7 pm: Spoken Word

Thursday, Dec. 29
6 pm Artvaark (Art Night). 7 pm. Open Mic.

Sunday. Jan. 1
Noon. New Year's Dinner.
2 pm. Showing of original 'Bill' movie (1981).

Wednesday, Jan. 4
6 pm. Readers & Writers Group. 7 pm Spoken Word

Thursday, Jan. 5
6 pm Artvaark (Art Night). 7 pm. Open Mic

Friday, Jan. 6
4 pm. Chess Club
5 pm. Friday Night Jazz.

Saturday, Jan. 7
4:30 pm. Irish Sessions.
7 pm. Saturday Night Music with Mutiny in the Parlor.


Bill's Coffeeshop Newsletter is a virtual extension of Wild Bill's Coffeeshop and Uptown Bill's Coffee House. Published since 2000, the Newsletter is written by Tom Gilsenan, a former manager of Wild Bill's and now director of Uptown Bill's. You can write to him at tomgilsenan@gmail.com

Wild Bill's Coffeeshop is a project of the School of Social Work at the University of Iowa. It has been a part of campus life in Iowa City for more than 35 years. Located in North Hall, the coffeeshop is open weekdays from 8 am. For more information, check the Friends of Bill's Coffeeshop page on Facebook. You can call the coffeeshop at (319) 335-1281. Donations to support the work of the coffeeshop may be sent to: Bill's Coffeeshop Fund, University of Iowa Foundation, P.O. Box 4550, Iowa City, IA 52244. Contributions are tax deductible.

Uptown Bill's is the crosstown cousin of Wild Bill's. Now in its 11th year, it includes a bookstore, performance venue and other businesses in addition to a coffeeshop. Located at 730 S. Dubuque, Uptown Bill's is open Monday through Saturday from 10 am. For more information, check the Uptown Bill's website or Facebook page. You can call Uptown Bill's at (319) 339-0804. Donations to support the work of Uptown Bill's may be sent to: Extend the Dream Foundation, Uptown Bill's, 730 S. Dubuque St., Iowa City, IA 52240. Contributions are tax deductible.





--
In the spirit of Bill Sackter, Uptown Bill's strives to nurture and encourage a gathering place where people of all abilities are welcome. Find us on Facebook. Follow us on Twitter. Watch us on You Tube: www.youtube.com/playlist?p=PLEE41220297F8D82C
Visit our web page: www.uptownbills.org




--
In the spirit of Bill Sackter, Uptown Bill's strives to nurture and encourage a gathering place where people of all abilities are welcome. Find us on Facebook. Follow us on Twitter. Watch us on You Tube: www.youtube.com/playlist?p=PLEE41220297F8D82C
Visit our web page: www.uptownbills.org

Monday, December 12, 2011

What if we named him Tom * Beggarmen * Holiday dinner * Bill's Coffeeshop Newsletter * Vol. 12 * Dec. 12, 2011

WHAT IF WE NAMED HIM TOM?
(A holiday story from the coffeeshop)


"I'VE BEEN waiting for you," the young woman said as I walked into the coffeeshop. She got up from the booth and continued: "They told me you'd stop back in before you went home,"

It was a few days before Christmas and I was checking back in at the coffeeshop after a long day. It wasn't an unpleasant day, just a very long one. I'd been in the coffeeshop all day and had taken a break in the early evening to run a few errands.

"You probably don't remember me," the young woman said. "I'm Maya; you interviewed me for a story when I was in high school."

"You're right," I said. "I don't remember you. I'm sorry. But it's been a long time since I worked at the paper."

"Yeah, it was 10 years that you interviewed me," she said. "After I graduated, I went to California for awhile. It was just like in those stories you write: Young person goes to San Francisco to find peace and love.

"Anyway, I met a guy on the beach in Santa Cruz. We moved in together. We fell in love," she said, then hesitated. "At least I did.

"And when I finally came back to Minneapolis, he came back with me. That was about two months ago. It was fall then and I was so happy.

"But a week ago we got into a fight about the holidays. It was something silly, but in the heat of the moment I got up and stormed out. I drove around for a few hours, enough time to cool off.

"I went home, thinking we could work things out. But when I got there, Bill was gone." Tears started streaming down her face. "I haven't seen him since. It's been almost a week; he hasn't called or anything.

"HERE IT is Christmas. I feel so awful. But I was just so tired and angry that night.

"I've been going crazy ever since. I thought of going over to my dad's, but this whole thing is just too much like what happened to him. My mom walked out at Christmas – and never came back. I heard she's in Arizona or something now."

"Oh yeah, I remember that," I said. "It was quite a missing person story for awhile. But I didn't connect that with you. So that was your mom?"

"Yes," she said quietly.

"Does Bill know about your mom and all that?" I asked.

Oh yeah," Maya said. "I told him all about that and all the other crazy family stuff, too. I figured he should know before he came back to Minnesota with me."

We were both quiet for a few minutes. I looked down and saw our coffee cups were empty. "How about a refill," I suggested.

"Sure," Maria said.

As I walked back to the booth, I noticed a strikingly handsome young man come through the coffeeshop door. He looked like a surfer, but with brown hair. "Oh my god," Maya said. "It's Bill."

He walked slowly over to our table. He stood next to me and spoke quietly to Maria. "I've been looking all over for you," he said. "I've gone to our house every day. But you weren't there. And I've checked at this coffeeshop a couple of times a day."

Maya said she couldn't stand to be at the house and had gone to stay with a friend. She'd gone back once to get some clothes, but that was it. And she said she was so miserable that she'd called in sick at work for the past four days.

Bill listened and then sat down next to me. He took Maya's hand and said: "I thought the same thing was happening to me that had happened to your dad. You were leaving me at Christmas."

"Oh no," Maya cried. She leaned over the table and hugged Bill. "Can you forgive me?" she asked.

"Sure, if you'll forgive me," he responded.

At this point, I felt I was an intruder. I got up to go, grabbed a couple of bags of garbage and mumbled something about cleaning up. I went into the kitchen and stayed until they left about 30 minutes later.

Then I came back out to clean the tables. I found a note addressed to me in the booth. It said "Thanks and Merry Christmas from Maya and Bill." At the bottom was a PS: "We're having a baby. What would you think if we named him Tom?"
MUSIC, OPEN MIC,
CHESS & MORE
Wednesday, Dec. 14, 7 pm. Spoken Word (Readers and Writers Group at 6 pm. Plus Art)

Thursday, Dec. 15, 6 pm. Art Night. 7 pm. Open Mic.
7:45 pm Music and CD release party with Erin Ebnet

Friday, Dec. 16, 4 pm. Chess Club. 5 pm. Friday Night Jazz with Brazilian duo of guitarist Ze Emilio and drummer Marcelo Corvosa.

Saturday, Dec. 17, 7 pm. Saturday Night Music with The Beggarmen

Tuesday, Dec. 20, 6 pm. Jazz Jam

Wednesday, Dec. 21, 7 pm Spoken Word Open Mic. (Readers & Writers Group meets at 6 pm.)

Thursday, Dec. 22, 6 pm Art Night. 7 pm. Open Mic

Sunday, Dec. 25. Noon to 2 pm. Christmas Dinner. All are welcome.

Tuesday, Dec. 27, 6 pm. Live webcast of Tom's Guitar Show

Wednesday, Dec. 28, 7 pm. Spoken Word (Readers & Writers Group at 6 pm)

Thursday, Dec. 29, 6 pm Artvaark (ArtNight). 7 pm. Open Mic

Sunday, Jan. 1, Noon to 2 pm. New Year's Dinner. Noon to 2 pm.

Wednesday, Jan. 4, 7 pm. Spoken Word (Readers & Writers Group at 6 pm)

Thursday, Jan. 5, 6 pm. Artvaark (Art Night). 7 pm. Open Mic

Friday, Jan. 6, 4 pm. Chess Club. 5 pm. Friday Night Jazz Series.

Saturday, Jan. 7, 4:30 pm. Irish Sessions. 7 pm. Saturday Night Music with Mutiny in the Parlor
WE THOUGHT YOU'D
BE INTERESTED IN...
...Spoken Word on Wednesdays and Open Mic on Thursdays will continue each week through the holiday season.
...Some changes are planned in coffee house /bookstore hours during the holidays. Check the schedule posted at Uptown Bill's.
..."A Friend Indeed: The Bill Sackter Story" can now be viewed online. Visit this website: www.billsackter.com
...Several new flavors of vintage soda pop have arrived in the coffee hosue this week. Included: Nesbitt's Orange of California, Blue Cream Soda from Frostie, and NuGrape.

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Bill's Coffeeshop Newsletter is a virtual extension of Wild Bill's Coffeeshop and Uptown Bill's Coffee House. Published since 2000, the Newsletter is written by Tom Gilsenan, a former manager of Wild Bill's and now director of Uptown Bill's. You can write to him at tomgilsenan@gmail.com

Wild Bill's Coffeeshop is a project of the School of Social Work at the University of Iowa. It has been a part of campus life in Iowa City for more than 35 years. Located in North Hall, the coffeeshop is open weekdays from 8 am. For more information, check the Friends of Bill's Coffeeshop page on Facebook. You can call the coffeeshop at (319) 335-1281. Donations to support the work of the coffeeshop may be sent to: Bill's Coffeeshop Fund, University of Iowa Foundation, P.O. Box 4550, Iowa City, IA 52244. Contributions are tax deductible.

Uptown Bill's is the crosstown cousin of Wild Bill's. Now in its 11th year, it includes a bookstore, performance venue and other businesses in addition to a coffeeshop. Located at 730 S. Dubuque, Uptown Bill's is open Monday through Saturday from 10 am. For more information, check the Uptown Bill's website or Facebook page. You can call Uptown Bill's at (319) 339-0804. Donations to support the work of Uptown Bill's may be sent to: Extend the Dream Foundation, Uptown Bill's, 730 S. Dubuque St., Iowa City, IA 52240. Contributions are tax deductible.


Monday, December 05, 2011

Christmas Story: We're The Posadas * Concerts and more * Book Sale * Bill's Coffeeshop Newsletter * Vol. 12 * Dec. 3, 2011


CHECK THESE
THIS WEEK...

...Book Sale. All books (hardcover and paperback) are $2. A few exceptions; those are marked.

...New menu includes soup and sandwiches every day.

...Tea selection has been expanded and the display moved to a new place in the coffee house

...Lunch packs and wraps from Oasis have been added to our menu.

...A new art show is up in the meeting room

...Egg nog milkshakes are available this week. $3.50

HERE'S THE CALENDAR 
OF COMING EVENTS

Tuesday, Dec. 6, 7 pm. Music with No Coast. Local alt folk/pop band

Wednesday, Dec. 7, 7 pm Spoken Word Open Mic (Readers & Writers Group at 6 pm. Plus Art)

Thursday, Dec. 8, 6 pm Art Night. 7 pm. Open Mic.

7:45 pm Music with Brandon McHose

Friday, Dec. 9, 4 pm. Chess Club.

Saturday, Dec. 10, 7 pm. Saturday Night Music with Pigs & Clover

Wednesday, Dec. 14, 7 pm. Spoken Word (Readers and Writers Group at 6 pm. Plus Art)

Thursday, Dec. 15, 6 pm. Art Night. 7 pm. Open Mic.

7:45 pm Music and CD release party with Erin Ebnet

Friday, Dec. 16, 4 pm. Chess Club. 5 pm. Friday Night Jazz with Brazilian duo of guitarist Ze Emilio and drummer Marcelo Corvosa.

Saturday, Dec. 17, 7 pm. Saturday Night Music with The Beggarmen

Tuesday, Dec. 20, 6 pm. Jazz Jam

Wednesday, Dec. 21, 7 pm Spoken Word Open Mic. (Readers & Writers Group meets at 6 pm.)

Thursday, Dec. 22, 6 pm Art Night. 7 pm. Open Mic

Sunday, Dec. 25. Noon to 2 pm. Christmas Dinner. All are welcome.

Tuesday, Dec. 27, 6 pm. Live webcast of Tom's Guitar Show

*** WE'RE THE POSADAS: A CHRISTMAS STORY ***

"EXCUSE ME, sir," the woman said. "Do you know where the Shelter House is?"

"Sure," I said. "It's just three more blocks." I pointed up the hill.

It was a warm night, warm for December 23 at least. And clear, too. Even in the middle of the city you could see stars in the sky above.

"My name is Maria," the woman said. "We just came back here from Chicago. I had a job there and a nice place to live. But some other

things didn't work out.

"So we came back here. I thought we'd have a place to stay when we got here. But my friend is gone. Someone told me about Shelter House. But I think we got lost trying to find it."

"You're not really lost," I said. "You're very close. Here, I'll walk with you."

"Thank you," she said.

"No problem," I responded. I pulled my phone out of my pocket. "Let me call Michaela and tell her you're coming,"

"You know people at the shelter?" she asked.

"Oh yes," I said. "Michaela and I were in a class together a few years ago. She started volunteering at shelter house as part of a class assignment. Then after graduation she started working there.

"She once told me that her dad used to take her to a shelter house in her hometown every year during the holidays. They would bake pies and deliver them on Thanksgiving or Christmas."

"Cool story," Maria said. She stopped for a minute, as if to remember something.

"Oh, I haven't introduced you to my children. This is Alberto, he's 11. Luisa is 8. And Jesus is 5."

Each of the children was carrying a trash bag. "We didn't have suitcases," Maria explained. "Besides they could have the bags next to them on the bus."

JESUS was also carrying a small teddy bear. "He didn't want teddy to go into his bag," Maria said.

"He wouldn't be able to see if he were in my bag," Jesus explained.

"Oh," I said.

We had walked one block. "Just two more blocks."

"Why does it have to be so far?" Luisa said in a very tired voice.

"It's not really that far," I said. "If it's okay with your mom, I'll give you a piggyback ride the rest of the way."

"Mom, is that okay?" Luisa asked.

"Go ahead," said Maria.

I scooped up Luisa and we started again.

"What about me?" Jesus said. "Will I get a ride, too."

"Sure," I said. "When we get to the house, I'll give you a ride."

We continued the rest of the way in silence. Except for Alberto, who was humming "Jingle Bells."

IT really was a beautiful night. Outdoor holiday lights twinkled at us; indoor trees glowed through front windows. And somewhere in the distance we could hear Christmas music playing.

"This is it," I said, pointing to the house on the corner. "This is Shelter House."

"But that's a house, " Maria said. "It doesn't look like a shelter."

I smiled. "I know," I said, remembering all the discussions about having a shelter with the look of a home. It hadn't been easy, especially when advocates proposed the shelter not only be a real house, but also be located in a real neighborhood instead of being relegated to some industrial zone at the edge of downtown. That was over 10 years ago. Now the neighbors were strong supporters of Shelter House, even cooking dinner one night a week.

Michaela met us on the porch. "Welcome," she said. "We've been expecting you. Come in."

We went inside and Michaela asked Maria to register. She pointed to a big leather book, like one you might see at a bed and breakfast in some resort town. She asked the children to register, too. Jesus asked if he could register his teddy as well; Michaela said sure.

By now, it was past 9 pm. Michaela invited Maria and her children into the dining room for a supper of leftovers. I joined them for a few minutes. After everyone appeared settled, I stood up to say goodnight.

"But you didn't give me a piggyback ride," Jesus said.

"You're right, and I promised to do that." I said. "So let's go." I hoisted him up onto my shoulders and we went out into the backyard.

After a few minutes we came back in. I put Jesus down and again said good night.

"Thank you," Maria said. "Will you be back?"

"Oh yes, I'll be back tomorrow afternoon," I said. "My class is making dinner."

WHEN I returned the next afternoon, Floyd was at the door. "Hey look at this, will ya" he said, pointing to the registration book. "Can you believe this? Jesus is staying here for Christmas," pronouncing the first letter like a "J." "Holy crap."

"Yes, I know," I said. "And you say his name Jesus, first two letters sound like "Hay. Where are they?"

Floyd stopped for a moment to think. "Oh, they went grocery shopping."

"All of them?" I asked.

"No, just the mom and Jesus," he said, pronouncing the 'J' prominently again.

"Hay-sus," I said.

"Oh, yeah, right," Floyd answered. "Anyway, the other two are at an after school program down the street."

JUST THEN the front door opened and Jesus burst in. "You're going to make tamales with me," he said. "My mom and Mickie said." Maria and Michaela followed close behind. I looked at them for an explanation.

Maria spoke first. "Michaela told us your story about looking for tamales every Christmas Eve. She said you know how to make them in a crock pot. So we got everything we'll need. I thought you and I and Jesus could make them together."

"We started telling stories about Christmas," Michaela said. "I told her about baking pies each year and taking them to a shelter. But someone already told her that story." She smiled at me, then went on.

"But you didn't tell her about going to the zoo after that. We always did that, too. My dad said the animals were lonely at Christmas. Of course, the zoo was always free on Christmas Day.

"Then I told her your story about looking for tamales for Christmas Eve -- and the challenges which have come with that. Like the year you tried to use egg roll skins. Or searching for suitable tofu so you could make veggie tamales." She laughed.

"This year we have everything for beef and veggie tamales. And I thought you might like to try lamb tamales, too."Michaela took Jesus by the hand. "Let's go into the kitchen," she said.

"Tomasito, too?" Jesus asked.

"I told him your dad is Tom, too," Maria explained. So that makes you Tomasito."

So off we went to the kitchen, leaving Floyd muttering to himself. "I still can't get over the idea of having Jesus here on Christmas," he whispered to me as I walked by him.

We started by soaking the corn husks. "Where did you find these?" I asked. "They're not easy to find around here."

"Oh, I asked the family down the block if we could take the corn husks from their garden. They said sure. They'll be down later for tamales."

AFTER about 15 minutes, it hit me. We were actually going to have tamales this Christmas Eve, thanks to Maria and Michaela, and of

course, Jesus.

"Tomasito, what are you thinking about?" Jesus asked.

"Oh, I was trying to remember what Christmas was like when I was your age. I remember putting up a tree on Christmas Eve. I remember sitting on Santa's lap in a store window. I remember the store windows being decorated..."

I WAS interrupted by a commotion out in the front yard. We all went to see what was going on. When we opened the door, we found a group of young people. "We're the posadas," said the youngest.

Alberto stepped forward with an explanation. "We were talking about the Nativity deal, about Mary and Joseph looking for a place to stay. I said that we acted this out in a play called Los Posadas." Our teacher suggested we do that tonight. Then we decided to go out around the neighborhood. When we got to this house, I said this was where I was staying. So here we are."

There was Joseph, wearing a cape which probably had been part of a Batman costume. There was Mary with a "You're not the boss of me" sweatshirt. She was carrying a Cabbage Patch doll. "This is Jesus," she explained, holding out the doll. The rest of the group was composed of shepherds, wise men (and women), and animals.

Floyd joined us, looking even more puzzled. "Jesus," he said. "This whole place is crazy."

Jesus heard him. "My name is Hay-sus,"e said, pronouncing it carefully and loudly.

"Sorry," said Floyd. "I wasn't talking to you."

Maria stepped in. "Jesus, be polite, please," she said.

"You all look very nice," she said. "Would you like to learn a Christmas song in Spanish?"

"Yes," they all shouted, looking a lot like a troupe of Peanuts characters.

"Just a minute," said a voice from inside the house. It was Floyd holding up a guitar. "I'll play along."

So Maria taught us "O Blanca Navidad," the Spanish version of White Christmas.

O blanca Navidad sueno

Que todo es blanca alrededor

Blanca Noche Buena

Mi mensajera

De paz y de buen amor

Then Floyd said he wanted to sing us a song. "It's by Tuck and Patti.

Do you know them? " he said, turning to me.

"Yes," I said. "I remember when...."

But Floyd didn't wait for my answer. He started playing.

For Christmas this year I know exactly what you'd like

And I know you know I want the same things too

And I wish that I could give to you all your heart's desire

And see your face on Christmas day when all your dreams come true

But worldwide understanding and peaceful people everywhere

Is something right now beyond my reach

But we can do it simply: we could do it from the heart

Give presents that we know will never fade

And with all the ones we love, and everyone we know

Step by simple step, I know that we'll achieve

And in our homes, at least, a world that's filled with peace.

When he was done, he walked back inside without saying a word. We couldn't talk either. We'd never seen that side of Floyd. That song itself would been enough of a gift for that Christmas. But we had so much more. We had learned so much from each other in the last 24 hours.

And there we were on the steps of the Shelter House celebrating Christmas Eve: Maria, Michaela, and the Posadas posse. And, of course, Jesus, who was now walking around introducing himself to everyone saying: "Merry Christmas, my name is Jesus," pronouncing the 'J' just like Floyd did.

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Bill's Coffeeshop Newsletter is a virtual extension of Wild Bill's Coffeeshop and Uptown Bill's Coffee House. Published since 2000, the Newsletter is written by Tom Gilsenan, a former manager of Wild Bill's and now director of Uptown Bill's. You can write to him at tomgilsenan@gmail.com

Wild Bill's Coffeeshop is a project of the School of Social Work at the University of Iowa. It has been a part of campus life in Iowa City for more than 35 years. Located in North Hall, the coffeeshop is open weekdays from 8 am. For more information, check the Friends of Bill's Coffeeshop page on Facebook. You can call the coffeeshop at (319) 335-1281. Donations to support the work of the coffeeshop may be sent to: Bill's Coffeeshop Fund, University of Iowa Foundation, P.O. Box 4550, Iowa City, IA 52244. Contributions are tax deductible.

Uptown Bill's is the crosstown cousin of Wild Bill's. Now in its 11th year, it includes a bookstore, performance venue and other businesses in addition to a coffeeshop. Located at 730 S. Dubuque, Uptown Bill's is open Monday through Saturday from 10 am. For more information, check the Uptown Bill's website or Facebook page. You can call Uptown Bill's at (319) 339-0804. Donations to support the work of Uptown Bill's may be sent to: Extend the Dream Foundation, Uptown Bill's, 730 S. Dubuque St., Iowa City, IA 52240. Contributions are tax deductible.




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